It’s The Most Wonderful Time of The Year is one of my favorite holiday songs because of the memories that flood back every time I hear it. As I mentioned in an earlier column, from the time my daughter Caroline could stand, and every year since, we have danced to that song on Christmas Eve. I love the holidays! Even in a pandemic year – I still love the holidays!
The holiday season is all about hope and happiness. It is not so much about the gifts and the trimmings as it is about the reason for the giving and being thankful for the opportunity to give, receive and affect in a positive way, the lives of the people around us. This time of year seems to bring out the best in everyone as we come together as a family and community, celebrate our shared traditions and lend a helping hand to neighbors in need.
It’s The Most Wonderful Time of The Year and It’s a Wonderful Life – a great song, a great movie and two great reminders that this is the season of good feelings, of giving and receiving, and of putting ourselves in the position to experience the wonderful and priceless gift of gratitude.
It’s not about how many decorations you put up or how many gifts you buy. It’s not materialistic – it’s an attitude. Christmas is about giving, sharing, and having compassion and empathy for others.
Discontent cannot survive in a grateful heart. This year I have a very big and grateful heart, and I am going to show it in everything I do.
Two weeks ago I pledged to perform 25 random acts of kindness before Christmas Day. As of today, I have shopped and purchased holiday gifts from Donalsonville and Seminole County merchants, left a generous tip for a pleasant waiter – twice, asked someone “How are you really doing?” – and then really listened to the response, encouraged someone who seemed despondent, picked up and threw away someone else’s trash, pushed my shopping cart back into the store, purchased toys for kids in need, dropped everything to give directions to an out of town visitor, taped quarters to vending machines around town, said good morning to a stranger, publicly thanked community medical personnel and first responders for their selfless dedication to our well being, grocery shopped for the sole purpose of anonymously putting food on someone else’s table, written a letter to a child who could use some extra attention, and I have tried to be a nicer person on Mondays and Tuesdays.
That’s a total of fourteen accomplished. My eleven remaining tasks to do are . . .
Pay the drive-in order for the person in line behind me at a fast food restaurant.
Volunteer to take care of a vacationing friend’s dog or cat
Give a homeless person a care package and sit down and have a conversation with them
Spread cheer at a local nursing home
Put a coin in an expired parking meter (still looking for one)
Call or write a teacher who changed my life
Leave a present in my mailbox for my mail carrier
Forgive someone a debt and never bring it up again
Write a note to the boss of someone who helped me, and explain how great a job that person is doing
Offer change when the person in front of me at the register comes up short
Treat a veteran or out of town visitor to a meal
I made the decision earlier in the year to have a wonderful and very merry holiday season, and I have, am and will. During the next eight days I am looking forward to checking the remaining 11 acts of kindness off my list, because with the completion of each and every one, my Merry Christmas gets a little merrier.
It truly is the most wonderful time of the year!
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